How I Got Into Photography: My Personal Journey
Photography has always been a thread running through the tapestry of my life—woven into my childhood, my challenges, and my milestones. But it wasn’t just the camera or the technical aspects of photography that drew me in—it was the storytelling, the connection, and the legacy I could create through my lens. Let me take you on the journey of how I became a photographer, from the very first camera my mother gave me to where I am today.
The Spark: A Gift from My Mother
My story began at the tender age of six, when my late mother gave me my very first camera. She wasn't a photographer herself, but was always taking pictures at family events and trips. It was a simple gift, but it would ignite a lifelong passion. But little did I know, the roots of photography run even deeper in my family—my grandmother and great-grandmother (on my dad’s side) were photographers in their own right, capturing moments in time long before digital photography even existed. Perhaps it was their influence that unknowingly pushed me into this world of visual storytelling.
While my first steps in photography were made with a disposable camera, it was the act of capturing moments that drew me in—something I have never outgrown. I loved the world of beauty and how a camera could immortalize something so fleeting.
The Early Days: Learning Through Experience
I didn’t go to school for photography, and I certainly didn’t attend any workshops on editing or retouching. I was self-taught, learning through trial and error, constantly experimenting, and slowly honing my skills. My mother was there every step of the way, developing my film and helping me create scrapbook albums filled with my photographs. Those scrapbooks were my treasure. Unfortunately, they were lost in a devastating house fire when I was a child—a painful reminder of how fragile memories can be.
I stuck with Nikon throughout the years. While I’ve tried other brands, there’s something about Nikon that speaks to me. I can trust it, and the results have always aligned with my vision.
Overcoming the Challenges: The Road Less Traveled
In the early years, I wasn’t a professional. Photography wasn’t a career path for me yet—it was a passion, a hobby. Back then, it felt easier. The market wasn’t as saturated as it is today, where it seems like everyone and their sister is a “photographer.” Self-doubt was my constant companion, and figuring out what to charge for my work was a challenge. Looking back, I wish I had focused on a niche earlier. In my early days, I thought I had to do everything—weddings, portraits, corporate work, product photography—I was spread thin, and it burned me out. If there’s one lesson I’d give to aspiring photographers, it’s this: Find your niche and stick to it.
Turning Passion Into Business
For nearly 20 years, I was a hobbyist, photographing anything and everything. But it wasn’t until I worked at a medical clinic that my side hustle began to take shape. One day, the receptionist asked if I could take pictures of her 2-year-old daughter. I agreed and charged her $50—my very first paid shoot. Not long after, a head nurse approached me to photograph her son’s wedding. It was a small backyard affair, but it was a big deal for me—I was both terrified and thrilled. That wedding was a turning point. Word spread, and soon I was getting more bookings than I could handle.
By then, I was living in Cross Roads/Athens, Texas, and I was operating under a different business name. It wasn’t until I realized that beauty was my true passion that I began to really focus on what mattered most to me.
The Heart of My Work: Why I Keep Going
Photography for me is deeply personal. It connects me to my late mother, who passed away when I was just 12 years old. She was tragically kidnapped and is still missing to this day. Every time I pick up my camera, I feel like I am somehow keeping her memory alive. This sense of connection is what keeps me going, even through the toughest moments.
But beyond that, it’s the positive feedback I’ve received from clients over the years. The messages and reviews I get from people telling me how my work made them feel more confident, empowered, or beautiful is a powerful source of motivation. It’s the legacy I get to leave for others through my work.
A Shift in Focus: Beauty & Branding
Today, I specialize in beauty photography—headshots, branding for musicians and businesses, fashion, commercial work, and even boudoir photography. I’m also the official photographer for an international pageant, which takes me all over the world to capture some of the most stunning beauty and fashion moments. It’s been such an amazing journey to work with clients who see the value in high-end beauty imagery.
One of my proudest moments was working with a client who came in for a beauty portrait session. She was a woman who had been in the construction business, rarely dressed up, and didn’t recognize the woman she saw in the mirror. After a makeover, multiple outfit changes, and a couple glasses of wine, she looked at herself in the mirror and was so amazed and after her shoot had ended, burst into tears. She told me, “Thank you for showing me my feminine side again. I thought I lost myself, and now I feel beautiful again.” That moment shifted my entire perspective on why I do what I do. I’m not just a photographer—I am helping women rediscover their beauty and leave a legacy of confidence.
The Road Ahead: Education, Growth, and Travel
In August 2024, I closed my studio to focus on more personal growth and exploration. I’ve begun traveling for work, working with musicians in Tennessee and planning trips to New York Fashion Week in 2025. California is on the horizon too, as I meet with modeling agencies and friends, with the hope of seeing a San Francisco 49ers game along the way!
Photography for me is not just about the art—it’s about connections, memories, and telling the beautiful stories of the people I work with. I hope to grow as a photographer, constantly educating myself, and photographing even more incredible faces and stories across the world.
Advice for Aspiring Photographers
To anyone starting out, my advice is simple: Educate yourself first. Buying a camera doesn’t make you a photographer just like buying a stove doesn’t make you a chef. Understand your gear, learn your niche, and create a business plan. It’s hard work and it won’t happen overnight. Learn from your mistakes, but don’t be afraid to follow your heart. Your style and vision will set you apart, so embrace that.
Why Photography Matters to Me
Photography is my way of honoring my mother’s memory. It’s the way I keep her spirit alive within me. Every click of the shutter brings me closer to who I am and reminds me of why I’ve chosen this path. I am committed to working with women of all backgrounds—showcasing their beauty in ways they’ve never seen before, and giving them a legacy of self-love and confidence.
Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Let’s continue to create, inspire, and celebrate beauty—together.
Thank you for being apart of my journey!
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